Oct 29

Women empowerment events

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The Womxn Changing the World event was truly inspirational! It was such an honor being surrounded by amazing women who are willing to be authentic and vulnerable.

 

I’m excited to share some amazing events with you all that will continue the positive momentum. These events are donation based or free of cost.

- 11/16 Nurse hang out hosted by Honey of the Heart Coaching & Unalome Inspired Transformations https://www.facebook.com/events/949174285444584/?ti=icl

 

- 11/20 Good Vibes: a teen event (open to anyone 21 years & younger) - 12/4 Women Empowerment event

Both of these events are hostEd by the biz my sister & I co-created, Sister Tribe! More info about the events can be found at https://www.sistertribeco.com/events

 

Thank you all for sharing your light on the world. Until next time!

Thanks for posting these, Lucy!! I'm so honored you were able to attend! These look like awesome events!

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