I just don't understand what does everybody wants from me........... I always fail. I feel my needs are wrong
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I don't understand what am I suppoesed to be
I don't understand what am I suppoesed to be
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Expectations can be brutal, especially when what we want and what others expect of us are two different things. Here are my thoughts:
Your needs are not wrong. They are valid - and yours.
Sometimes the people we love don't understand our needs, and project "disappointment" onto us when we don't match what they want for us. It's ok to be sad, frustrated, angry, etc.
It's important that we don't sideline our own needs to make people happy. When we do that, we end up putting pieces of ourselves on the back burner. Telling ourselves we aren't important. Aren't worthy of time and attention. And that leads to some bigger, longer-term problems.
Do you have someone close to you that you trust? Can you talk with that person about how you're feeling? Identify what your needs are, and ask for their help in supporting those needs?
Sending you much love...